Whether you're dreaming of your vows or drowning in unspoken ones, this is your invitation to get real about what love actually means to you.
The most courageous moments aren't just in choosing or leaving a relationship – they're in daring to be fully seen within one.
As a relationship coach and minister, I help those who are ready to declare their love, find their love, or who are questioning every ember of it.
Empowering individuals and couples to live & leave a legacy of love.
Meet Ian
Relationship Coaching
Wedding Officiant
That 2 AM anxiety isn't about IF you love them (you do), but about HOW to love them and LET yourself be loved FULLY.
You know your love deserves more than cookie-cutter vows and staged moments - you want someone who can translate your real story into sacred ceremony.
You're not afraid of being wrong about them. You're afraid of being right about what you already know.
You're finally realizing that being alone isn't an emergency - but settling for less than you want actually is.
You want your 'I do' to be a moment of pure, unfiltered truth between two souls who chose each other, witnessed by everyone who matters.
You're ready to declare your love, but traditional ceremonies lack the meaning and intimacy you crave.
You might be here because...
- Courtney
As a woman, it is so refreshing to be coached by a man who is 100% solid and comfortable with big feelings. With Ian, I feel absolutely safe and held. In our sessions, Ian invites me to slow down into myself in a way that I have never experienced with another coach. This is definitely his superpower! His voice and presence are so solid and soothing that I am able to relax into myself in a powerful way that makes real change happen quickly.
-Robert
Ian. complete stranger. meets us one afternoon and over beers he promises soul. i'm smiling. intrigued. the silence between waiting and wedding he's emailing us. crafting. day of. i'm watching the cold peoples i've known all my life clutch each other's hands. sniffling and doe eyed. you'll be asked if he's your best friend. and he may be. we're without proof such passion existed. Ian demands it of himself. he is without comparison.
